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So, you feel like *you're* the walking dumpster fire.

Maybe you feel lost and directionless, or trapped in a negative space you can’t escape from.

Maybe nothing is sparking joy or giving you the thrill you seek.

Maybe you feel alone even in room full of people, or frustrated because you just never quite feel good enough.

If any of the above sounds familiar, we’re sorry – that seriously sucks. But the good news is that you don’t have to feel like a walking dumpster fire forever.

We don't pretend to have all the answers, but we have put together some resources ...

If you need to take a chill pill

Relaxing doesn’t come naturally right now

In times like these, it’s hard to feel anything other than stressed TF out, 99% of the time. But it’s important to take a moment to chill – click on the cards below for some helpful resources.

Watch this when you need to fucking relax
10 minute guided meditation - Boho Beautiful Yoga

We know everything feels overwhelming. Taking 10 won't fix it all but it will help you feel better, and that's a good start.

What to do when you feel like you're about to explode
Lots of emotions? Time to process that shit - TED Talks

This 5 minute video can help you figure out what to do when you just feel everything, everywhere, all at once.

Journaling - not just for preteens
How to ACTUALLY keep a journal - Zen Habits

Look, you might feel like you're 14 and keeping a diary, but journaling can help you make sense of the dumpster fire out there. Give it a try!

If you want to become your best self

Okay, so maybe you’re not at your peak

Truth be told, not many people feel like they’re *thriving* right now. But small steps make all the difference – click on the cards below for some helpful resources.

Exercise gives you endorphins, and endorphins make you happy
6-week fitness plan for total beginners - Very Well Fit

Look, Elle Woods was right. Exercise can help you feel better, the trick is just doing it in a way you enjoy! Go on a walk, do some light stretches, jog around the block, whatever - it all counts.

Stop getting in the way of your own joy
Overcome negative thought patterns - The School of Life

It sounds cliché, but there is joy to be found in every day, even if it's small. Sometimes to find it, you just need to get out of your head.

Change your habits, change your life
Small steps still get you there - In a Nutshell

Small steps, taken consistently, will change your life over time. The best time to start was yesterday, the second best time is now.

If you're looking for excitement

You’re looking for an adrenaline rush

Turns out, looking at the news is not the adrenaline rush you were hoping for – good news, there’s a lot of other ways to sate your appetite for thrills. Click on the cards below to find out more.

Outdoor adventures in New York
Outdoorsy stuff to do in New York - I Love NY

Not to brag, but we all know that New York is one of the best states in the country. Go outside! Touch some grass! Explore that shit and have fun!

For when life's a roller coaster
Amusement parks in New York - I Love NY

No one is too old to enjoy a theme park! From Coney Island to Six Flags, New York has so much to offer. Release some tension by getting your adrenaline fix!

There's More to Explore

Ready to put out more fires? Discover even more resources to keep things under control.

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